Time, Tide & Usefulness

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So, as the fates would have it, the pandemic is not a sprint — but a grueling marathon. Work (for some of us) is still present, although likely in some morphed form. The pace or tenor may have been revised. Colleagues may have scattered. Yet hopefully, your heart, passion and loyalty are still present, although possibly bruised and battered. A lot has happened. Every day there is more to digest.

Yet fall has still arrived. The days are still becoming shorter (at least here in Michigan) and my garden is still quickly fading. The tide still returns. Soon winter will come. Mother nature hasn’t bothered to blink an eye.

What are we to make of all of it? What comes next?

As as a young college student (pre-major), I drafted a rather depressing, dream-based short story named “The Far Side”. It mused of a dystopian world, where those with a useful profession were transported in the dead of night to an undisclosed location, in an effort to save the world (from itself). Some sort of traumatic event had already occurred — and while traveling through seemingly endless darkness and barren landscapes, there was a palpable sadness among the passengers. Yet, at the same time a resolute calm. A firm sense of determination. All I knew at that moment, was the aching pain of becoming separated from my family. I was unsure of their fate and on which side of the sorting algorithm had I fallen. Was I deemed useful?

At the time, I was a struggling college student on many levels. My parents had just divorced, Microeconomics was proving a relentless challenge and my tiny, insular world seemed to be collapsing. But, I had an inner sense that training to do something useful, was one key to getting past my present.

Feeling useful is important to all of us. It is a vital part of our core as a human being, especially when things are literally going sideways. Whether we are blessed with fame, money or acclaim really does not matter. Striving to be useful, is something of note that we can all achieve.

What matters is that we apply our training, our gifts, empathy and strengths.

That we create a small, but useful ripple, in this vast ocean of a world.

Not simply for the betterment of others, or for the world — but for ourselves.

What does being useful mean to you? Share your perspective with us in comments.

Dr. Marla Gottschalk is an Industrial/Organizational Psychologist is a frequent contributor to Live.Work.Think.Play. She focuses on empowering life & work through the development of a strong foundation. A charter member of the LinkedIn Influencer Program, her thoughts on work life have appeared in various outlets including the Harvard Business Review, Talent Zoo, Forbes, Quartz and The Huffington Post.

One thought on “Time, Tide & Usefulness

  1. To me it means using our gifts, the skills, talent, our heart and passion. It means being our unique self, the one and only one. Being the gift to someone we may or may not know. We are the one to help or be of service if you like, to the one in need at that moment. Nothing happens by accident and we are put on this earth to share our gifts with the people who need our set of skills and passion at a particular moment, spoken just the way they need to hear it- to help, be of service- to help each other know we are heartfelt humans.

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